Embracing curiosity: How experimenting transforms human connection
When we work with other humans, one truth quickly becomes clear: we’re not in control. People are complex, unpredictable, and full of surprises. Trying to force outcomes or follow rigid models often leads to frustration and missed opportunities.
So, what’s the alternative?
We can become learners. By approaching each moment with curiosity and a willingness to experiment, we let go of rigid expectations and open ourselves to creating something entirely new.
Start with the Present Moment
This shift begins by tuning into what’s right in front of us. Ask yourself:
- “What is this situation asking of me?”
- “Who or what do I need to pay attention to right now?”
These questions ground us in the present moment, inviting us to respond to the unique dynamics of each interaction rather than relying on one-size-fits-all solutions.
The Power of Experimenting
Experimenting allows us to:
- Try, fail, and learn: By giving ourselves permission to explore, we discover new insights and pathways.
- Create space for growth: Experimenting fosters an environment where both we and those we work with can thrive.
- Push past limitations: It helps us break free from habitual thinking and embrace new possibilities.
This approach isn’t just practical—it’s alive. It honors the richness and complexity of human connection, keeping us engaged with the unfolding moment rather than clinging to rigid plans.
Why Experimentation Matters
When we embrace experimentation, we adapt to what is while opening the door to what could be. We create a dynamic space for growth, innovation, and meaningful connection.
Instead of trying to control outcomes, we step into the flow of life itself, learning as we go and discovering unexpected opportunities for transformation.
~ excerpt from Getting Messy: A Guide to Taking Risks and Opening the Imagination
